I am good in remembering faces. Furthermore, I have a decent photographic memory. I don’t know whether it is a bless or a curse for me. Sometimes, it helps me remembering every detail I experienced in work and daily life. I can easily build relationship with my clients, colleagues and friends, as I can talk about their family or life they told me once.
On the other hand, I sometimes struggle to forget any bad things happened in my life. The level of details I can remember is unexplainable. I can even recall what happened decades ago.
I am bad in saying no. And, this is killing me since I usually overwhelm myself with commitments. I know this sounds cliché, but yes, I feel really hard to reject others, as I might disappoint them. It might be because I don’t like when somebody says no to me as well, who knows?
However, it doesn’t mean that I will forget or not care about what I have agreed to do. I always give my best in doing everything.
I love to have an argument about everything. I don’t easily accept whatever people said, especially when I feel it is really wrong. But, I know, for some people who are not close to me, it seems rude and annoying. Sometimes, they feel like I’m trolling, where in fact I’m just asking. Mom complained a lot with this habit.
I don’t like mainstream. I don’t like being the same side with the majority, because having more nods doesn’t make they are right. I am open to any discussion, as long as it is logical with facts and figures, not just filled with your mambo jumbos. If you can convince me, I will gladly change side and agree with you.
picture source: Produzioni Europee Associati